By-Mr Vinit Bansode, Founder of The Graphology Research Institute
When it comes to marriage or a long-term romantic relationship, we are very conscious and often are in a dilemma as to what has to be done. Do we commit to the person we like or in case of marriage do a background check to be satisfied and sure. Having said, will the relation even work? And will we have happy times like in the initial stages of the relation? It may be months before their true character emerges – will it be too late? Are we going to be blind to their character flaws, since we would be so deeply in love by then? The best way to learn the truth about the character and the true nature of a person is to get their handwriting analysed. Just as it is impossible to hide your real self in a social setting, you cannot change your handwriting drastically as it is a habit pattern that sets in over the years. It is like a fingerprint. Unique only to you! Yet reveals the hidden characteristics of your personality. It is said in graphology that signature is the public representation whereas handwriting is personal representation. Graphology is a complete science-based on the working and functioning of the subconscious mind.
People do approach Astrologers and Numerologist for marriage compatibility and business partnership also. But the drawbacks of those sciences are that they need details of the individuals for matchmaking and knowing their inner self. In Astrology, it is mandatory to know the person’s- Date of Birth, Time of Birth and Exact location of Birth then only birth chart/horoscope is prepared and predictions are made based upon the precise details given by the person. In Numerology, on the other hand, again the date of birth of the individual in question is required to determine the complete analysis of their personalities and for matchmaking. But that’s not the case in Graphology. The handwriting analysis here helps to get in-depth information about an individual or potential partner without any hassle. The person in question is not apprehensive and even if the person date of birth is missing, one can make compatibility check based on Handwriting and Signature Samples only! The traditional method of matchmaking has the families involved and Kundli (Birth horoscope) checked by religious heads, the modern method has evolved with the use of graphology.
Graphology does not have the ability to predict the future of a marriage or relationship, but can guide you into the inner true nature of your potential partner. Precisely saying handwriting is brainwriting. Fresh samples of the couple when taken by graphologists for handwriting and signature analysis helps to analyze behavioural pattern on various occasions, like in the case of a crisis or happiness; whether the person is honest or loyal enough; etc. These traits in an individual can be clearly seen by reputed graphologists. Signatures play a major role in the analysis. The thumb rule of graphology states that the signature should be clear. Tangled or illegible signatures are a red flag. Similarly, an individual who uses his or her second name or surname in the signature has a trait of being very family-oriented and will not hesitate to make sacrifices. On the contrary, the people using their first name in their signatures are individuals who may not be ready to make sacrifices. This would be a vital trait for a good married life. One of the best things about Graphology is that there is hope! The personality that you may find in your partner as a hindrance to the compatibility can be course-corrected. You like or love a person and you may not have to give up on that person just because you see an anomaly. Handwriting analysis will give you an insight and if you are willing to still partner with the person, you can look at being counselled by a professional. A little change in the style of writing practice can rewire the brain and after it forms a habit pattern can transform your lives!
Graphology as a science can help couples, friends and families to have long and sustainable relationships which have happiness and acceptance. With the help of a Handwriting analyst and a Graphologist, you can have that all-important objectivity into your beloved’s personality, allowing you to relax and enjoy being in love!