Should I buy a choker, or should I buy my wedding ensemble before I purchase the bridal jewellery? Like these, there are a thousand questions that run through a bride-to-be before she decides on her wedding look. Call it the ‘stressful list of things to do’ or the ‘bridezilla's list of things to do’, shopping …

Prerna Rajpal, founder, AMARIS
“Today’s millennial bride believes in a more sophisticated and well-informed approach to jewellery shopping and values quality and versatility in equal measure. The wedding set is the crowning glory, but jewellery for your pre-wedding events and your trousseau, if designed smartly, can be reused with ease even after the celebrations.”
From the on-going trends, choice of trustworthy jewellers to budget and most importantly the bridal set you want to purchase for your big day, Prerna Rajpal chalks up a style guide to ensure brides have smooth sailing shopping experience.
Lock on your bridal set before the outfit
It’s a myth that you need to purchase your outfit before the jewellery. Many times, the wedding jewellery you are buying is likely to be more expensive than your outfit. And at times, the outfit instead of highlighting the jewellery, diminishes its value. For starters, browse through Instagram or Pinterest to get clarity on what kind of jewels you would prefer wearing. Next, visit your favourite jewellery store to try on a few pieces to know what suits you best, and get the jeweller’s perspective on their favourite bridal jewels, and identify the jewels that complement your look, enhance your neckline, and add the right glow to your face.
Invest in layered necklaces instead of chunky, singular pieces

Create the design of your dreams
If each function during the celebration leading up to your big day consists of distinct looks, so why not your jewels? Design your jewellery to complement your facial and neck structure, for instance do not go for a choker if you have a broad neck, chandbalis alone can light up any look, and go really well with a broader face cut, whereas jhumkas work wonders on a thin face cut. Try and avoid opting for a repetitive design or colour. If you go for a regal and heavy necklace with emeralds on your wedding day, then choose a design in diamonds or a different stone for your cocktail or mehendi function.
Ensure the jewels that you purchase have a strong resale value

Blend it with heirloom pieces

Choose comfort over trends
It is important to feel comfortable with the jewellery you choose to wear on your big day. Try and avoid heavy earrings for occasions where you are required to dance. However, if you decide to wear something really heavy then ensure you have enough support through ear chains. Ask your jeweller to customise something to pair with your earrings that add to the overall aesthetics of your look. Do not forget to wear ear patches, apply numbing cream or you could also use a transparent thread that can help ease the pain. Jewellery shouldn’t make you feel constricted but should enhance your glow.
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